Back to School? Tips on keeping your kids safe!Summer vacation is over and your kids are back in school, facing the threats of cyberbullying, sexting and other online safety dangers. In the UK alone in 2012/13, a total of 4,507 children - around 12 a day - called the NSPCC (National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children) helpline to complain they were being abused by peers on social networking sites.
And what about Secret, Whisper and all the other new anonymous messaging apps that kids are using these days? There've been a lot of stories recently in the media about how these apps are being used for anonymous cyberbullying...
So, there is no better time to review online safety practices and tips!
Know what is happening online, where your kids go and what they do when they are online. Learn about the possible dangers - cyberbullying, sexting, online predators, and inappropriate content. Understand how these could occur, what warning signs to watch out for, and what the possible consequences could be. Remember that sometimes familiar "frenemies" who use the Internet as a weapon, may be more threatening than strangers.
Communicate with your kids
Explain about the dangers possibly awaiting them online. Tell them they should feel free to come to you whenever they feel uncomfortable – whether they "accidentally" see inappropriate content, receive a request from a stranger or feel threatened by a bully.
Review basic online safety rules
Remind your kids of these basic online safety rules:
- Avoid posting of photos online!
- Avoid giving out names, addresses, phone numbers, schools, banking information or other similar information
- Never meet someone you only know online
- Do not share your password!
- Do not believe everything you read. If it’s online, it doesn’t necessarily mean it is true
- Avoid "checking-in" and geo tagging
Did you get them a new laptop, tablet, or smartphone?
- Review your family online use rules. Did you decide on different rules for the summer? This is a good time to rethink your family’s rules, and explain that these should be followed even if they are using the Internet from a friend’s house, at the library or from a mobile device. If you don’t already have one, consider creating a family online safety contract.
- Make sure you have an online safety program installed. PureSight can assist you in monitoring your children’s online behavior on several devices (tablet, smartphone, laptop) on Facebook too! PureSight can also help you in setting time limits and in blocking offensive and hateful content, even in instant messaging programs. And you can set up individual, age-appropriate profiles to help all of your children. Learn more about PureSight.
Dying to share those "back to school" photos on Facebook? Think again...
It's fun to share your children's first day of school photos for all your relatives and friends to see. But here are a few things to consider before you do so:
- "Unfriendly" people may find/download your child’s picture - in order to use, abuse or even try to pursue your child. To prevent this from happening you may want to think carefully about the type of images you post — for example, posting nude images should be avoided.
- Someone may misappropriate your child’s picture/identity, and pass your child as someone else's or even worse - use their identity for fraudulent purposes. To avoid this, tweak Facebook's privacy settings so that only friends and family can see the photos, and never share any of your child's private info, such as social security or phone numbers
- When your child grows up, he will have an entire online history he never made/wanted. College admission boards, future employers now look routinely at Facebook profiles as part of their screening process. Will your child really6 want them be able to see him boarding the school bus in third grade? To avoid this either refrain from posting under your/their full name or avoid posting pictures that show his/her face clearly.
Is your kid a victim of cyberbullying?
- Behavioral changes, trouble sleeping, and closing computer windows when you enter the room are some of the signs. Click this link Is my child a victim of cyberbullying? to learn the signs that may indicate your child is a cyberbullying victim or that he may be cyberbullying others.
- If you have come to the conclusion that your kid is a victim of cyberbullying, there are things you can do. Not responding, documenting the evidence and contacting authorities are examples. Check out our What should I do if my child has been bullied? page for other things you can do.
And what about their time at school? Are they safe? .
Here some questions to look into with your child’s teachers and administrators:
- What are the rules regarding mobile devices at school?
Are children allowed to use mobile devices for calculating and research? Is there a punishment for texting in class? Or, are mobile devices not allowed in the classroom at all?
- Are there social-networking rules regarding student/teacher interaction?
Many teachers use Facebook and other social networks to connect to students and make themselves available for questions, while others do not. Ask your child’s teacher what their rules are, and make sure you feel comfortable with any social-networking requirements.
- Does your school have a Cyberbullying policy?
What is expected from both the parents and student when it comes to dealing with cyberbullying incidents? Many schools have recently implemented harsher penalties for cyberbullies, including suspension and even expulsion.
- Does your school use filtering software?
What is your school doing to protect your child from harmful online content and contacts while they are at school, and what happens to a student who tries to access inappropriate material.
1. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2385714/Online-bullying-cases-double-just-year-Twelve-victims-day-ringing-Childline-support-months-torment.html ↩
2. http://www.nspcc.org.uk/news-and-views/latest-news/2014/online-pornography/online-pornography_wda101910.html ↩
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